24 hours a day....

  I was waiting for a Majlis Ilmu last weekend and a beautiful young lady at middle of 30's enter the hall. She looks very cheerful and have a pleasant image. We started the kuliah with surah Al-Ikhlas and she started to talk about ethics.....a very interesting topic about human rights, freedom, woman, fair judgement, happiness index....everything sounds interesting to know.... :-)

Nobody knows that she just involve in an accident that morning and her car is badly damage....she looks stunning and fine....like nothing happen....for her...it is a pity for her to spoil the beautiful morning by arguing how the accident happen....he decided to be optimist....she leave it to the insurance company to handle....she added : we decide how we want to feel everyday.....sad or happy?

Talk about her life as a wife, mother of 3, a lecturer, a daughter & DIL.....everything looks so tight ya?? Tihihii.......maybe....and there are people (out side) watching at her and whisper: 'Hey...she seems to do everything, even have class during weekend? Aren't she feel tired? Have she cooked for her kids? Done the laundry? Enough time for her husband and maybe for herself?'

 Well.....do we  ever have enough time? Rasulullah s.a.w. also have given 24 hours a day.....same with us....yet, he manage to perform all the 'ibadah and done his duty that many of us may wonder how he did it......Qiyamullail, Solat Hajat, Solat Sunat, Solat Duha, Fasting......++ Allah.....u name it.....

Well....ok laaa.....that's Rasulullah....how about ordinary people like Tun Mahathir? Just wonder how he manage to think, work and done so many things in a day? 

Everybody is given 24 hours a day......what do we really do ya? What is more meaningful? Feel bored coz donno wht else to do? Or feel glade we manage to do  what we suppose to do? Is  it true that a busy woman like her give less attention to her kids and life? Is children with full time mummy is a guarantee to be better than children tht have a career mummy? How about a man? Househusband maybe? Do they exist in Malaysia? Dato' Dr. Fadzilah Kamsah didn't agree with this phenomena.....coz he believe that a man should go out and looking for the "rezeki"....

Well....how about a blogger? Everybody knows a daddy blogger enjoying his househusband title.....busy updating his blog everyday and look after his baby boy, caution about his masculine body.....waiting with patient for his wife to go home....and having a nice dinner together.....while he gain money from his blog.......hhmmmmm....interesting ~ people handling unique life ya!  ;-) 

I'm sure everybody have their own arguments.....i'll leave it for everybody to debate....as for me......for time being....i can't imagine my life without my career....i love to be a mom and bless to be a wife.....i enjoy cooking, baking, sewing, stitching and drawing......i also love to write...(maybe one day i could produce a novel?) Hmmmm.....that's a good idea....can be considered as one of my retiring plan.... :-)

  Everybody have their  own way to occupied their 24 hours/day.....either a housewife or a working mom....surely have plan on what to do....not to just sleep all day i believe...bored rite? or just shopping all day long....almost everyday? nothing else? will surely get bored......(for me maybe...huhuh ;-p) whatever it is....we should not judge a woman that hv a career and seems to do so many things can't handle their life or abandon their family.....do we know her capability on handling his life in balance? Yet, still have time for herself and enjoying her life better than us maybe? Hihihi..... ;-p

Whatever it is.... a wise mother should already know how to balance the time for herself and her lovely family.....everything that important for her will never been left behind....she will try her best to be fair to all her children and faithful to her husband wherever she goes.....maybe that's why Allah give woman a very high position as a Mother.....because Allah knows that woman can explore her maximum potential to handle many things.....complete the woman's life with a Man who will be responsible, taking care of her and help to make her life easier........MasyaAllah ~ Maha Suci Allah ~

With my hubby's bless, redha & doa'....plus redha & doa' from my mother....so far everything flow smoothly...my pray to Allah may everything become easier for me ....may the knowledge tht i gain...benefits me and others....to be apply in my daily life and work.....helping me to understand them better......why people with science background always think this way and the social people look at that way.....how to bridging the gaps and how science communication should come in the middle and benefit everybody....

Learning about something that related to my work help me to realize why certain people behave wrongly and feel nothing, yet i feel sympathy for them....teach me to have a fair judgement and hold my patient handling 1001 humans behaviors along the day....sounds weird hah? hahahha....it is...but tht's how i feel...i am more relax and peace in handling many issues that i face.... tq Allah ~ :-)

Aha...we may still look young today.....or we wnt to be young forever.....but Rasulullah did say : "Kebanyakan Umatku akan berumur antara 60~70 tahun"....time goes by so fast.... i am already past almost half of the golden age 60~70.....and what have i done with the past 33 years of my life? Is it good enough? Should i keep on dreaming? or wasting my time thinking that i'm still young and behave@ dress like i'm young all day n nite? Pretending that i'm still the sweet 17 that everybody will admire? Having fun all the time and do the same things as i did when i was 20's? Hahahhaha.....come on!!! *masa yang pergi tak akan kembali * we may miss all the chances that we have today..

How about choose to be realistic? Learn to be wise, look elegant & pleasant to carry the titles (as a wife, a mother and a career woman), suit our behave with our age and live the life peacefully......

For the next 2 years...i'll be double busy with my elder son's time table, his home work, schools.....plus his lil brother started the kindergarten....i should prepare a proper plan to suit their need later on....including spending more time for their school preparation....how abt my own plan then? My endless plan.....Hahahaha!....just wonder how it's gonna be...must be exciting....hhihi....

Ohhhhhh......it is getting even weird now.......i tend to love my life more and feel bless with what i had today......Tqvm Allah...for giving me the chance to live my life at the fullest! ;-D

A marathon week...

1. Sport n Spinach  Exhibition with Exploratarium, Denmark

2. Draft Agreement Contract for Thematic Exhibition

3. Draft report ~ ASPAC Rice Exhibition Development Workshop

4. Dino's Science Carnival

5. Internal Audit Report

6. 1001 Inventions ~ Muslim Heritage Exhibition

7. Star Trek Exhibition

8. EMA 717 Assignment & Presentation ~ Ethics in Public Services

9. EMA 756 - Financial Management in Public Services

10. NSC Borneo Branch

11. Additional info for Science Scheme upgrading

Allah....tqvm for giving me the strength and will to perform my job as 'ibadah' to You ~ Allah the Almighty... I've done all my best to make it better for me, for them, my children & others.....with Allah...i believes that what's the best will always given to the right person in the right time at the right place.

Tqvm Allah fr given us the most Wise Leader in the Ministry - Y. Bhg. Dato' Dr. KSU....other people may have different perception about you.....but i adore your Great Leadership in making either Descriptive or Normative  Decision that most of the time suite the best situation. It is extremely hard to change people and it is absolutely cannot be done within one night.....but Y. Bhg. Dato' Dr. have done a lot of efforts to help MOSTI, especially on upgrading the science scheme that dominated the Ministry.

It is our efforts today that determine the sustainability of future S&T career in this country. We can always choose to ignore and wait & see....but certainly these are not the choices that the great leaders will consider...

I understand very well that this life is too short to be wasted and time goes by so fast.....it is a promise that we are all gonna be face Allah The Almighty ALONE and nothing else will be considered as rewards to us except our knowledge that benefits others, a sincere do'a from our children s and  'amal ma'ruf' that we managed to performed in our life...

 “He has raised up the heavens and set the Scale of Justice (so firmly) that you cannot play it false” (Surah 55:7-8)

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His BFF ~

I took Cuti Ganti today....coz last weekend im on duty....time for my family.....anak2 pun seronok semacam sb pg2 bangun mamanya ada kt umah....

Abang pg2 da g kindnergarden.....adik selalunya main basikal ngn his only bff ~ Dhia....anak neighbour i depan umah.....tp sb mama off today....dia takmo g mana2...nk kepit ngn mama sajork....mama nk berkebun depan umah pun mengekor kt blakang....mama mandikan rainbow d rabbit pun adik setia tunggu.....kalau bo mama mesti sentiasa depan matanya...hihihi....

Dhia bila tak nampak Ian....pg2 da muncul kt depan pagar umah....."Ian2x....Dhia dtg ni".... hihihi....cute sgt....kebetulan kami tgh breakfast.....ajak Dhia sekali....kemain bdk2 berdua nih nk duduk rapat2.....sibuk Ian layan Dhia nk minum apa.....hihii....sweet sgt bdk2 kan.....so sincere n adorable.....

Derang main2 lego set yg i belikan aritu...Ian buatkan umah utk Dhia...alolololoo......comeyyyy kan.....pastuh derang cerita2 laa....ckp nnt umah ni ada hantu....pastuh dinasour datang...tp kita tak takut kan.....sb Allah ada....hihihihi.....so cute to see 3 years old kids explore their imagination.... :-)

Tak lama......bibik Dhia dtg panggil balik.....Ian cakap....."Nnt petang kita jumpa kt taman tau Dhia...byeeeeee...."

Pastuh Dhia salam i....hikhikhikhik.......feeling mak2 sangat i hari neh... ;-)

p/s: agaknya kalau derang da besar.....mcm skunk jugak ke? or.....dah segan....hihihi

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Muhasabah diri...

Allah....give me d strengh to face their vices...make them realize how big is their responsibilities....stop blaming and don't simply chunk every faults to their officers!!! Subhanallah!! Semoga Allah berikan mereka keinsafan dan tunjukkan kebenaran....seindah kepimpinan adalah berlandaskan Al-Quran & Sunnah Rasulullah s.a.w....

"If u enter into agreement, fulfill it. If u have promised to do certain good deeds, keep your promise. Accept favors and repay it. Refrain from lies and falsehoods. Love good and righteous people & be friendly to the weak. Control yourself and do not get angry. Prefer dignity and mildness. Do not be greedy. Of all your money, there will remain only what was honestly spent on behalf of Allah"

Sesungguhnya amatlah merugikan membuat judgement tanpa usul periksa dan percaya pada orang yg salah....mmg bukan mudah menjadi Pemimpin....kerana Amanah Allah itu sgt besar.....& only the most Wise Leader understand better.....

Wallahuaklam........sesungguhnya hidup ini satu perjalanan yg penuh dugaan dan setiap hari adalah satu pelajaran.....kadang2 kita rasa kita hebat dan tau semua perkara.....tapi msh banyak lg rupanya yg kita perlu pelajari.... :-)

p/s: Teringat kata2 Dato' Dr. KSU MOSTI in a meeting ~ "u must see both side of the coin, only then u can see the real situation before u make any conclusion"....

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Sticky Mode : The effectiveness of Vit. B Complex

Arituh kan weols ada buat n3 pasal experimental taking vit. B Complex kan....utk lihat kesannya...daku bukan sahaja hasut Mr. Hubby utk amik...tp juga Bibik ye.....Aahahhaha...2~3 kali sehari.....

Hasilnya >>>>>>>>>>> Bibik :  makin laju buat kerja.....siap melarang Puan menolongnya...ngak apa Puan.....beres ineh.....rehatlah di sofa.....kikikiki.....elok laa tuh...tp daku ttp gigih nk mop lantai n siram pokok bunga....takut tak buat apa2 lansung......*menggajah laa daku nnt :-p

Mr. Hubby : Bertenaga dan mudah bangun pagi...seawal azan subuh lagi....wp mlmnya kena buli dengan anak2...layan jadik raksasa...derang jd ultraman sampai tengah mlm.....huih.......hebat2x.....plus ++++ *glow* muka hubby i....neh bukan nk hangkat bakul masukkan laki....pastuh hangkat sendirik yer....tapi kenyataan.....Mr. Hubby kan ada masalah kulit muka dolu....akibat chicken pox dan kulit berminyak....skunk elok sajork...bersih......

Me : Selamat tinggal migrain dan segala letih urat......mengantuk masa driving n mood swing balik keje.....ala2 tenang jeee bila tgk anak i cabut pokok bunga kesayangan & susun tanah dalam pasu jadik    benteng kubu lawan raksasa katanya......kalau dolu....harus weols dah kejar satu umah.....maknanya Vit B conplex ini telah membantu weols jd org yg lebih tenang......kulit i? Tambah cerah, tegang and kurang white head!! Masalah yg dr dulu dialami kerana jenis kulit yg kering. And of coz tak mudah penat mcm dulu....sb Vit. B Complex bantu penghasilan ATP oleh sel yang diperlukan untuk badan melakukan cellular activities... Gtuew.....term biology dah masuk..... :-p

Alhamdulliah......nampaknya Dr ituh tidak tipu gue.....tak tau lah kalau jenama lain kat luar tuh ok ke? sb kat farmasi pon mmg banyak supplement mcm neh....but for me....i stick to AMWAY Vit. B complex....tak mahal pon....yg kecik 100 tablets cuma RM38.00 sajork...yg besar 250 tablets RM84.00....disamping itu i ada amik multivitamin.....sekali je sehari amik.....neh penting kalau i g travel....masa g Bangkok arituh.....cuaca kat sana jerebu.....mmg senang org boleh dapat selsema + batuk + demam....tp sb i amik Vit. B & Multivit....alhamdullilah...takde masalah lansung n bertenaga je.......gtuew......

Nak tau lbh lanjut....boleh g tgk kat sini :  www.amway.com.my....
To order, drop an email at : deevajie@gmail.com

Benefit B COMPLEX lebih krg mcm kat bwh ni :

• Naturally derived from cultured, deactivated yeast
• One tablet provides 100% or more of the US RDI of all 7 B vitamins - B1, B2, B3, B5, B6, folic acid, and B12; plus inositol and PABA (para-amino-benzoic-acid), that all adult men and women need.
• Water-soluble B-complex vitamins assist in the release of energy from fats, carbohydrates and proteins, to meet added energy needs brought on by stressful living.
• Helps promote healthy skin, nails, hair and eyes
• Essential for the development of red blood cells as well as the normal functioning of the nervous system.
• Alcohol, smoking, caffeine, dieting and the use of birth control pills can deplete the body of B-vitamin
• Suggested Use : One tablet to be taken two to three times daily.

P/s: Tunggu sekurang-kurangnya setengah jam jika telah mengambil teh/ kopi. Mengambil ubat atau vit dgn unsur kafein akan menggangu penyerapan.